For my urban kids, our version of Halloween is trick-or-treating at local businesses or our small apartment building. Although fun, not the full Halloween experience that you typically think of like spooky decorations and neighborhoods full of ghouls, ghost and goblins. This year, both the kids are old enough to get into the spooky spirit of Halloween. So I pondered for days with the burning question all slightly wicked parents have, “how do I scare my children without terrifying them?” It became an obsession, the question consumed me, I googled it, I asked for advice from colleagues and friends, I contemplated for hours and then like a ghost in the night, the answer appeared in my email inbox, the New York Botanical Garden event, Frida for Families: A Spooky Nighttime Adventure. To celebrate the New York Botanical Garden’s (NYBG) featured exhibit, Frida Kahlo, NYBG created a Dia de los Muertos evening with a Halloween theme. Dia de los Muertos, Day of the Dead, is celebrated in Mexico around the same time as Halloween and honors the lives of loved ones who have passed. NYBG created a hybrid celebration between the two holidays, with this spooktacular Friday night event.
The Garden was partially open after dark and transformed into a Halloween adventure. There were large, beautiful skeletons dancing with and spooking patrons throughout the walkways to live music from a six piece band. The skeleton dance party was just the beginning of the spooky fun. The Everett Children’s Adventure Garden featured a trick-or-treat trail with goodies and stations for painting skeletons and making pumpkin germination necklaces. We walked through the trail taking our time to explore the hidden treasures along the way.
The children used their flashlights in search of owls, bats, spiders and ghosts hidden in the trees. Although the night was brisk, the kids were bundled up so we took our time to enjoy a spooky ghost story and giant pumpkin carving demonstration. The pumpkins, some weighing over 2000 pounds, were award winning giant pumpkins. The pumkins were transformed into pieces of art right before our eyes. The trail was lively and walking through the garden at night was an unforgettable experience.
To my devious dismay, the children were not all that scared, the night was the perfect blend of fright and fun. We can’t wait to return next year and make the spooky garden walk our Halloween family tradition.
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